In an article*, Hilary Lips, writes that leadership by women is a delicate balancing act. A women leader can neither be too “pushy” nor too “soft”, neither too strident nor too accommodating, neither too sexual nor too sexless. Women leaders are judged more strongly and far more is expected from them than from their male counterparts. They frequently face exclusion from “informal networks”, such as evenings out among male colleagues where decisions are made, which strongly impacts their general advancement.
Lips cites research that suggests that people listen and take direction more comfortably from men. In the study, when male and women leaders gave the same solutions, using the same words, the male leaders were received with attention, nods, and smiles and the women leaders by turned faces and frowning.
Perception of women leaders depends on the context. Lips discusses results from another study that showed that in Norway, with its long and deeply-rooted history of women’s involvement in leadership, women felt a strong sense of legitimacy in their leadership roles. In France, in contrast, where this was relatively new and rare, that sense of legitimacy was absent, and women were called upon to prove themselves repeatedly. Norwegian women expressed joy and a sense of efficacy in their leadership roles; while the French women, spoke of difficulties, conflicts, loneliness, and marginality.
Have you experienced this balancing act during your career? How are women leaders viewed in your culture?
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*”Women and Leadership: Delicate Balancing Act”, article by Hilary Lips (April, 2009)
(In two weeks time we will blog on differences between men’s and women’s leadership styles)

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